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If you are experiencing breastfeeding aversion and agitation there's a number of things you can try to see if they relieve your symptoms and help you continue breastfeeding
Latch, Latch, Latch
If your newborn baby has a poor latch, get help immediately. Whether its attachment and positioning or tounge tie, having painful feeds will lead to dreading feeding, and even if it becomes resolved it may lead to BAA long term. Also, whilst there is nothing published that suggests suckling changes from when a baby is a newborn to when they become a toddler, it can certainly feel very different to a mother. For a start, toddlers have teeth, and you can feel them if the latch isn't right. As a child grows and their dependency on milk decreases, the latch can often be a lazy one. Make sure to promote a wide latch and proper suckling every feed to lessen BAA.
Distraction, distraction, distration
Perhaps the most instant relief comes from distraction. Feed in front of others, go out, if you can't then get people over. Look at your phone, read a book, watch TV, some mothers with severe BAA say hold an ice cube. Whatever works to distract you until the end of the feed.
Whilst this one might not be in your control, it is important to note. Sleep is important for functionality and sanity. Mothers often say BAA is much, MUCH worse when they are sleep deprived. Take any opportunity to sleep, if that is not possible reach out to ask for help. Get friends or family to watch your child/ren so that you can have the opportunity to have a short nap. Try mindfulness (Headspace offers a free trial, with short 10-minute sessions that are accessible online anytime). Listen to sleep hypnosis tracks on YouTube to help you at least doze in the day or at night, if you cannot sleep or if it is not possible to sleep as you are a primary care-giver and have no help.
Hydration and nutrition
Breastmilk is mostly made up of water, and as you feed, you will be making more milk and using more water. Hydrate, A LOT, especially at night.
Breastmilk has many, many constituents, see Jenness, 1979. (The article is available here). Many more are discovered with each passing year and its uncertain that we know all its properties. What is certain thought is that 'lactation represents the greatest postnatal energetic expenditure for human and non-human primate females, and the ability to sustain the costs of lactation is influenced by a mother's physical condition.'(Hinde, 2009. See here). If you can see a nutritionist, sort out your diet, and eat better, to see if this has an effect or lessens the BAA. Although there is no research to prove its efficacy, many mothers take supplements to reduce BAA, such as B12, Magnesium and Vitamin D, and for them it works.
Time out for yourself
Feeling 'touched out' and not having any personal space can be a common complaint of successfully breastfeeding mothers, particularly for those feeding older children or tandem feeding. Having time alone or time for yourself and not breastfeeding is crucial for some women to get a handle on BAA.
BAA can start when a women has the return of her post natal (partum) menses, and for some mothers BAA continues with each monthly menstural cycle, in varying forms. Hormonal imbalances can play havoc with us women, knowing that this balances redresses after your period can help BAA, so keep a note on when you are due and see if there are any correlations. Also, ask your GP or doctor to do a blood test and check any abnormal results on your hormones such as LH, FSH, prolactin, oestrogen,and progesterone.
You are not alone in experiencing BAA.
Join a local breastfeeding group, an online forum or a Facebook Breastfeeding aversion group.
Share your story, get support.
Ask your GP (UK) or Doctor to perform a full blood test, checking your female hormones, Iron, Vitamin D etc in order to establish any deficencies. If they're not helpful, take the blood test results to a nutritionist.
Keep a diary, note when BAA happens to you in order to establish if there is a pattern
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